As far as melt-downs or tantrums go, Scott is having very, very few. He really wants to be near me or John, so us walking away from him when he has a fit has worked well. Actually, Cooper has started to have the melt-down, yelling/crying her eyes out fits when I have corrected her and this is pretty unusual for her. She generally is very easy going. Not sure if she just thought that the tantrums she observed in her new brother looked like so much fun that she wanted to join in or what. She cries, "I thought you loved me" and runs off. Hoping that this will get better soon. I'm feeling like they might have something to do with her seeing me be more affectionate to Scott and that she is jealous.
Bed times have been much better. Scott has to lay out his clothes for the next day (still preferring long pants but letting me talk him into shorts some days). Of course, Cooper has to have hers laid out right beside his. Offering ice cream AFTER pajamas get put on brings about the fasted change of clothes ever (confession - afternoon swim means chlorine has killed all germs, therefore we can skip the bath). Cooper picks a book and Scott picks a book and now they both enjoy being read to together. When Cooper kisses her favorite character on a page, Scott has to kiss his. The last several nights the two of them have talked and giggled in their beds, both of them surrounded by a row of stuffed animals who are tucked in beside them - another "tender moment".
All in all things are so much better. A week at the lake on vacation last week with Kelly and Tucker joining us what wonderful. Scott loves the jet ski (not so keen yet on riding in the "biscuit" behind the boat) and caught on fast to running and jumping off the dock and doing "cannonballs." In reading over what I've written tonight I'm bewildered as to what is it that is such an emotional strain. The pleasant behaviors are out numbering the unpleasant as far as Scott is concerned. I think it's the sudden way we go from such pleasantries to someone yelling that "he hit me" and I'm being called into referee that wears me out and me then watching my own "melt-downs" in their various and not so lovely forms being played out by my always observant children. What a humbling experience this has been.